in lieu of something extravagant

what is it like to have a friend? is it the same as having a romantic relationship? do you feel the scintillating shocks we have come to expect from a lover's kiss in the midst of a friend? are you able to exert the most overwhelming of efforts for that friend in the same way you are able to die for your significant other? can you hold that friend's hand with the same care and comfort you provide in holding your love's hand?

what is it like to have a friend?

a best friend at that?